ThenThe Rumble Strip Is Not the Problem

You know the sound.

You drift a little too close to the edge of the highway and suddenly the tires hit those grooves in the pavement.

BRRRRRRRR.

The steering wheel vibrates. The noise gets your attention. Your instinct is immediate: move back toward the center of the lane.

Those grooves are called rumble strips. The Federal Highway Administration says roadway rumble strips use noise and vibration to alert distracted, drowsy, or inattentive drivers when they begin leaving their travel lane.

The rumble strip didn’t cause the problem.

It told you about the problem.

There is an important lesson there about responding to feedback.

Responding to Feedback Without Getting Defensive

Not every uncomfortable message in life means someone is attacking you.

Sometimes you’re simply getting close to the edge.

1. Pay Attention to What Makes You Uncomfortable

Feedback can create the same reaction as hitting a rumble strip.

You don’t like the feeling.

A customer complains. Someone questions your decision. Your spouse points something out. A friend tells you something you don’t want to hear.

The first reaction may be defensive.

However, discomfort doesn’t automatically mean the message is wrong.

FHWA describes rumble strips as a safety countermeasure specifically designed to give drivers an opportunity to correct their direction before a roadway departure becomes something worse.

Sometimes uncomfortable feedback serves the same purpose.

2. Correct the Direction, Not the Warning

Imagine hitting the rumble strip and becoming angry at the highway.

Who put those grooves there?

That misses the point.

Yet we do something similar when feedback threatens our pride.

We criticize the person delivering it.  Then we explain why they don’t understand. We defend what happened instead of asking whether there is anything useful in what they said.

You don’t have to agree with every criticism.

Still, learning from criticism starts with separating the message from your emotional reaction to receiving it.

Ask:

Is there something here I need to correct?

3. Small Corrections Beat Big Recoveries

A rumble strip works best when you respond quickly.

You hear the warning, make a small steering adjustment, and continue down the road.

FHWA reports that shoulder and edge-line rumble strips have produced meaningful reductions in run-off-road crashes, particularly those involving distracted or drowsy drivers.

The earlier you recognize drift, the smaller the correction usually needs to be.

That is true with habits, relationships, leadership, and business decisions too.

Final Tune-Up

Think about the last piece of feedback that bothered you.

Instead of deciding whether the person was right or wrong, ask a different question:

Was there anything useful in the warning?

Maybe not.

But if there was, make the small correction now.

Don’t blame the rumble strip for telling you that you were drifting.

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